Friday, April 18, 2014

Wedding Photos


The Bride being prepared.  She was 18, and looked terrified.





The huge pot for the wedding rice.


The bus that the groom, and his family, arrived on.



The bride's dowry.


The groom arriving.




The groom and his family waiting for the bride to enter.





Preparing the wedding seat.






Bride putting her groom's necklace on.



Family members washing the bride's feet 





HA!


Weddings here are not particularly joyful, at least for the bride and groom, as they are always arranged, and the bride and groom are very young.

Thursday, March 20, 2014

Catching Up Your Eyes on Nepal


Beautiful Christmas gifts from Auntie Susie and Uncle David! I'm so spoiled!


The Dan-Man




This is what it's like to be on a bus, in Nepal.


Here is photographic evidence that Shayne WILL touch animals in Nepal.



Our favorite restaurant decorated for Valentine's Day!

Bora and I, on the bus to Palpa.


My Valentine's Day present from E-Shayneeee: A picture frame with donuts on it.  It was obviously made just for me!


"American" restaurant in Palpa.

1/6th of the potato harvest from my family's field.  This is in what used to be my Hajur Ama(Grandmother)'s bedroom.








Mousi(Mother's younger sister), her annoying son and my Ama.


My family planting their gourd and corn crops.



Danny being helpful.





My Buba thought it very important that I pose with the measuring stick. 


Proof that I actually do work, sometimes...


Cute, not annoying little boy who calls me "Auntie."


The following photos courtesy of the Prince.

Making the plastic house(green house).


Group shot (from L-R): Matt, Rachel, Ali, Me, Alex, Ben, Nikea, Krysla, Kelsey, Bora, Aerin.


Baby Goat!


Christmas.




Holi tika




The storm moon.


Danny got tika-ed.


More tika.


Danny "playing" with his friend.


More


Danny playing with the tooth brush that I got him.


Look at how big he is!


My family's potato harvest.

Sunday, March 16, 2014

Dirty Life and Times

15/3/14

IST was difficult.  When there were trainings that I was excited about, which was rare, they turned out to be not-as-advertised.  The rudest shock we got, was when we found out that the “goat dairy” we were expecting to learn about, was actually a goat meat farm.  Finding this out, while holding a darling baby goat, was NOT fun. 

Most of the time, we sat there, either bored or confused.  I understand that it’s hard to pick trainings for everyone’s taste, but there was only one training for health volunteers (who make up ½ of our ranks), and for those experienced Ag. Volunteers, the agriculture trainings were old hat.  In between trainings was bland hotel food and high-school level drama.  While it was nice to see people, to have different restaurant options, and have hot showers for nearly two weeks, I can honestly say that I was more than ready to leave when the day came.  The trip back was long a hard, and made me even more glad to put my stuff down in my lovely little room and hug my dog (who got so big!).

It’s hard to believe that it’s been two weeks since I’ve been back!  Our big report about the status of our villages is due in two weeks, so we’re all scrambling to get that together.  I got a little cocky about it, since I’d worked on it early, but now I’ve gotta play catch up.  It’s nerve-wracking preparing to try and ask complicated questions, that I’ve had to translate myself, to people.  I started with my Buba, and things went pretty well-I’m feeling a bit more confident, now.  The next step is to go to our local administrative office and ask about population statistics, etc., which is a laugh.  I will be very surprised if they have any useful information.  Not to say that the people working in the offices are bad workers, just that when it comes to the Nepali Government, we’ve all learned to be skeptical about them providing us what we need. 

Since I’ve been home, I’ve also been trying to actually get started on projects.  At the moment, us Dang-ers are getting rolling on making improved cook stoves for our area.  Ben has found a community resource person to help him (and hopefully the rest of us), and Christine has molds for the bricks.  The goal is to work with this guy, but also to train people in the community to make them, that way; we aren’t spending every day for the next two years making stoves.  Plus, passing on the knowledge makes the project more sustainable, and opens up the possibility of a village person taking it on as an extra income-generating job, which would be great!

Besides that, I think we’re all trying to get started on IPM.  IPM stands for “Integrated Pest Management.”  This is just a fancy way of talking about ways of dealing with pests without resorting to tons and tons of chemicals.  Chemical pesticides and fungicides are a big problem in Nepal.  Not only are they used much more often than they need to be (since many people can’t, or don’t, read the package directions), but when applying, farmers don’t use proper equipment and protection. 

My family’s farm is better than other farms in the area-using new techniques, being precise, but even they use way more chemicals than are necessary.  As a group, we are hoping to develop a curriculum of lessons about IPM techniques by the end of May.  Then, as a group, or as individuals, we can travel our area and show farmers their other options.  We also may have found an NGO that will give us funding to do these trainings and buy supplies.  Unfortunately, money is a huge stumbling block for all of us.  Our villages assume that we have tons of money to start projects, but, the truth is, PC gives us almost no money for projects.  We have to use money out of our own living allowance, and if we want more, we have to apply for highly competitive grants, or find outside funding.  This means that we spend valuable hours just trying to fund projects, instead of doing them.  I guess this is good training for working in the int’l NGO/non profit world!

I’ve had three successes in the past two weeks:

1.  I made some johl mol/compost tea, which is just a mixture of manure, water, medicinal plants and kitchen scraps.  You let this sit for two weeks, and then can spray it on plants as a natural fertilizer and pesticide.  The problem with a lot of these IPM/organic methods is that they are hard to apply to larger areas of land. However, I found some old, huge blue barrels in our barn and was going to suggest that my Buba use these to make a huge batch of johl mol.  Before I could even say anything, I came down stairs this morning, and he was already working on it!  If it works, it might be a model for a community-sized johl mol-making program-pretty exciting!

2.  I taught my Buba about companion planting (planting things like corn, squash and beans together-this saves space, decreases the need to weed and enhances the soil), and he decided to do this in an entire field!  I sure hope it works, or I’m going to look pretty stupid.

3. My friends Christine, Ben and I planted a little perma garden next to my house!  It’s only 4 days old, so it doesn’t look very interesting, but it’s the most gardening I’ve ever done, and I felt pretty proud of us!

The thing about being an “Agriculture” volunteer and not really knowing much about agriculture, is that there are many times where my knowledge or opinion are called for and I have absolutely no idea what do, so it’s small victories like these that make those moments a little easier to bare.

Other than work, things with the family are fine.  I still get frustrated about things-like how I finally bought a maxi, which is a long, loose dress that all the older ladies were, that looked super comfortable, but found out that I have to wear a PETTICOAT underneath it.  I was so disappointed that I was nearly in tears over my dhal baat. 

Also, it’s now become a thing to invite me to weddings, make me take tons of pictures, then expect me to have them printed out and delivered to the family within a week!  It feels really shitty when you turn up somewhere only to find out that all the people want is your modern technology.  People literally shunned me after my camera died during a wedding.  I’m going to have to put my foot down, next time.  I am not here to be a wedding photographer! 

Danny is good.  He got his first bag of dog food, courtesy of his Auntie Nikea and her trip to Kathmandu, so I’m less worried about his nutrition. 

The weather is getting really hot, and I’m panicking a bit, thinking of the coming four or five months of monsoon season. 

I’m, of course, missing all of you and want to hear all of your news!

I’ll put up pictures soon.

Xoxox


Maria

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

UGHHHH

8/2/14

This week was fairly unproductive, unfortunately.  From Monday to Wednesday I traveled to our district capital, Ghorahai.  Elizabeth and I had been planning a trip to meet up, for a few weeks, so it was great to see her-we ate cheese and apples, drank wine and did mani/pedis-a nice little treat!

While there, I went to visit the District Agricultural Development Office to meet with my supervisor.  He is a very nice man, but I am getting pretty sick of how disappointed people are when they find out that I have virtually no agriculture background-especially in comparison to the other two Ag volunteers in Dang, who graduated with related degrees.  I find it very frustrating that PC put me in this position-being expected to be an expert on something that I know so little about.  There have been many times when people in my community have asked me about something Ag related and I’ve had no idea!  How am I expected to ask these people to give up some of their land, perhaps some of their livelihood, to let me experiment, when it is very likely that I could mess it up?! Gahhh!

Another frustrating aspect of the trip was my visit to the local hospital to have my bowel problems checked out.  Once I finally spoke with someone there who understood what I needed, a group of men who did not seem to work for the hospital, and were just lounging around (as people seem to do here, in the weirdest places) began loudly discussing my request. It’s always fun to have strangers yelling “stool test, stool test” about you!  I was taken to a bathroom with a western toilet and given the most ridiculously small vile-picture one that essential oils are sold in-to use.  I almost laughed out loud when they handed it to me.  Having already had to collect my own sample, that morning, it became a matter of transferring….  Once done, I had to wander the halls for several minutes, with the disgusting, tiny vile, trying to find someone to give it to.  After finally handing it off, Elizabeth and I spent nearly two hours waiting for something to happen.  When I was finally called into the lab, they told me that “now we will do the test.” WHAT?  What happens next is one of the most ridiculous things that has happened to me here. 

The lab tech took the vile, walked over to the window, held it up to the light, and took 15 seconds to write down a description of it.  THAT WAS IT-that was the test!  They then gave me the sheet on which was recorded such basic information that I think I’ll just do it myself next time!  I called the PC doctor who assured me that nothing was wrong, based on the sheet that the lab tech had read to him, but that, because of the presence of un-digested food particles, I should consider chewing my food better. Geeh, thanks, that’s about the most ground-breaking medical advice anybody has ever gotten throughout history! 

I think that there is a real frustration, among the volunteers, about the level of support that we are getting from PC-this experience being just one illustration of that. I understand that starting up a new program is difficult, but it seems, recently, that PC is oscillating between being so controlling of some parts of our lives, while leaving us dangling at other times-with all the other things that we’re dealing with, that makes it even harder.

On the bright side, I got one letter and six packages this week! I’m so spoiled!  The first four required an all day trek to my Ag office, two VDCs away.  A 90 minute hard bike ride, followed by a 30 minute cramped jeep ride, followed by a two hour wait for the post office manager, who was, of course, not there.  And, since this is Nepal, we, of course, had to stop at two friend’s houses on the way back, meaning that I didn’t get home until nearly two hours after I had wanted to.  It’s my fault, because I keep forgetting that if you leave the house, and try to get more than one thing done in a day, it’s not going to happen-everything takes forever, here. 

I got the other two packages yesterday, in town, with my doctor friend, Om.  Since I had not planned on going into town, I tried to get some work done on the Internet, there.  I am contacting as many NGOs as possible, to get their services brought to my area, and I started a Crowd Rise account to raise money for the ambulance that my community needs (email me if you are interested in donating, I will also post the link on my Facebook page). So, even though the day involved Skyping with Molly, getting packages and eating fried food, I still felt somewhat productive. 

Today is a day for cleaning, like most Saturdays.

Next week I’ll have to go back to Ghorahai, just for a day, to our monthly district Ag meeting, and on the 17th, I’ll leave for IST-In Service Training.

Speaking of, I’m dreading IST.  The whole PCN200 group hasn’t seen each other in three months, and we’ve never all been together for more than 6 days, so I’m anticipating DRAMA.  We’ve all been cooped up, and ready for a break-however, what we’ve been given is 11 days straight of 8-5 trainings in a town with nothing to do at night- not anybody’s idea of a break.  Add that to exhaustion from all day trainings, lectures and language courses, and I anticipate a very stressful situation.  Plus, it means that I’ll have to be gone from Danny for soooo long!

While this post sounds like I’m incredibly frustrated, things are actually ok.  My health is better, and I’m getting into the meat of my work on the VSA-after, which, I actually get to start working!

Well, I’m off to write letters and clean.

Hope all is well with all of you!

Xoxox

Zoop